Alid Misli

People’s attitudes are contagiously strong. Every decision you make in your entire life reflects on who you want to be or what you want to be (in your life). Yes, Individuality has a great potential (to be) to change any reaction in our environment. Individual with big influences may easily threaten it surrounding by delivering the good or bad pathway; which is according with their own desire and belief. People can’t really justify on how the law of life should be. If we have a choice, we all want it to be ideal and safe, which is, all things should be fair, good and nice. You may want to say, that justice is always right and fair. Sadly when you think this world is a happy place, but actually, you soon will discover too that this world is not so friendly at all. If I touch, this sense with religious belief, I’m sure I’ll be weighting this case with unbalance decisions. Therefore, I won’t put any ideal religious belief in this value although religion belief has its role on our daily basis activities.

I witness how people change from good to bad and from bad to good. Not to omit, people also see me changing, whether I did change from bad to good, or from good to bad, or still fix as a good person or vice versa. It’s a fundamental thing that, people change. Yeah, it’s NA-TU-RAL. You want to judge or you want to care; it’s all about your own perception.

It’s a blessing, if someone out there; really looks upon you, on how you run your life. Most of this are taken care by parents, family (& siblings), close friends, teachers and etc. Without using any current and pure statistics, not all individuality have an effect when they’re been told off not to do the wrong thing.

Give a pause for yourself, and think for a while, have a label for every individual that have bind into your life. Some individual you may recognize as a potential fun mate, some human helps you to think deep about the life, some may bind you to get attentions; some create you as your own therapy session, and some may be with you for the sack of popularity. So basically, who are you? Which role are you playing?

Don’t be afraid, if you’re a bad person. Every person in this life has a choice so if his bad person in terms of sociality concepts meaning a bully, a robbery; I’m sure he won’t be alone in his area. Bad person or not, I believe it still does have a sense of belonging from its environment. The only things matter about each individual is the offer that they can, or willing to give. No matter how bad your attitudes are, it’s not really the end of the world yet. Your skills for what you can do to individuality, group (community) is the essential part or role in human being has to conquer it uniqueness.

Easy example is? How useless you are, people tend to forget a place for you. How useful you are, I’m sure you’ll get a good life. If you rewind back in our history, & question, which one is better; the old you or the new you? You will see an answer too on your giving, rather than taking.

Once upon a time, you are nobody, and then come a little miracle that some bunch likes you for giving them something let’s say a place for dancing. I’m sure that the bunch of people would love and soon be close to you as you can give them the place to dance. Eventually they evolve and become your close friends ever. This is a human sense where we never think back on who we use to be: Our life before, when we were with the old friends, who give as inspires and walk and sat beside us during our history is forgotten, coz the history is been blocked with the feeling you have with the new friendship have given you more opportunity for what is called fun and continuous laughter.

Do you remember, for those sat near you, while you were struggling to do your homework or understanding? Do you remember for those who don’t really matter on how well you look as long as you’re fine and healthy? Precisely, it’s true, along the way we may forgotten about the sweetness in our past.

Further example is when you have forgotten to remember for who you are and for you’re not in the past. You may be lucky to feel in such joy now. But actually the joy in you is not nor complete in life, coz the new friendship is blind with other specialties except the specialties’ of only to have fun and laugh. If you let them listen to your sadness or emptiness, would they able to answer your call? What is your life made of? Fun and laugh? Sad or depress? How well do you run your life on this planet?

Incredible saying, “I’m still young and I can still waste time on something mean while”. Have you ever wonder when you’ll be dead? The more you think you’re young, the more you tend to waste time. Life is not all about 2^nd chances. Life is more about dealing the right thing. If you lose any, you may be lucky to have a 2^nd chance. But some part in our life may leave with no more trial and error. And when those occur, you may end up being a failure.

Believing too much is wrong. Thinking too much is wrong too? It’s better to be adequate, rather than too much. When you go beyond too much, it’s really hard for you to return and clean up your mess. Dan Millman had say “Some people live their whole lives without ever waking up,” what does he mean by this? I let you think for yourself on that.

Beyond our imaginations, we never thought that, life is just a straight line that field with these three words, “Gaining, losing, and lastly everlasting”. In life, we speculate many things to do or act on this planet. We tend to bother or not in the scenario we observe around us. Some people with sensitive humanity sense may take counts on every detail that they gain or lose. Some are seriously unaware on this scenario. Pleasure and pain is the constant exchange inside our life. But some may only have focus on pleasure as their manifest but not the pain they really had for being their latent.

Life is more than having fun, or being sad. Life is more about dealing best or being looser. What life is, its about playing your role nice and easy and being adequate according with the law of society. When you laugh to the fullness, don’t forget to be sad for the thing you lose and left. When you’re sad, don’t hesitate to think for the best time ever you had. You can’t have all, but yet it doesn’t mean you can’t have them. People like you for you’re giving, and if you lost your role on giving, they tend to replace you with others. If you think negatively, they want you only for the benefits and pleasure? But a true relationship never matters on how you give, and the best is when they really know who you are, with a sense of understanding on what your pain you hold underneath your skins, and for that, that’s why they love and really care about you.

Forgot to write, about the famous and rich.. maybe next time~